太突然了，心情沉重！初识唐博士时刚踏入职场没多久，你像一个大姐姐一样帮助了我们成长。后来也时常能从同事那听到你的消息。谁知今天……。感恩跟你相识的缘分，愿一路走好！
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常郝
消息很突然，也很震撼！每次看到群里消息就眼睛控制不住的湿润。跟唐博相处的点滴在脑海里闪过，就像昨天，还那么清晰。像启蒙导师一样，唐博教会了我很多。开朗，爱笑，热心肠！愿唐博一路走好，我们会永远记得您，感恩跟您相识相处的缘分
点兵
听到这个消息太突然太震惊了，一上午都精神恍惚。唐博把我招进AcornSoft，我们一起共同奋斗了三年。后来虽然分开了，但一直保持着联系，上次一起吃饭感觉就在昨天。真是天妒英才，希望唐博一路走好，家人多多保重
王国华博士：在意大利见到唐虹的那些日子
唐虹是我们南大核物理的师姐，高我俩届。在南大时我们对高年级的大哥大姐们都满是敬仰，映像中的唐虹总是在笑盈盈的说趣。而真正体会她的好却是好多年后在意大利的时光里。。。那年我从日内瓦核子中心去佛罗伦莎玩，住在唐虹家里，她那样亲切和平易近人，让我觉得回到家里的轻松愉快，唐虹还备了咸水鸭，解了我多少年的馋瘾，她虽然不会和我说老南京话，我可觉得是老同乡呢。佛罗伦莎夏天热，蚊子多，晚上她给房里点上电蚊香，摇上电风扇，我们吃着西瓜聊天，好痛快。第二天，唐虹做的那盘清炒西瓜皮，那可是我们小时候那个年代南京老百姓夏天的家常菜，我的心完全被俘虏了，我今天成了佛罗伦莎的媳妇，感谢唐虹给我埋的种子。
虽然唐虹只比我大一点点，她真会照顾人，还会聪明地引导人。我真是受益不浅。1993年初我来意大利比萨核子所作研究，唐虹和丈夫王贻芳把车子也借给我用，都没打听我的行车档案。一个月后他们把我的罚款都交了，才告诉我。还叫我安心做工作。那时候她就像家里人，我一有事就找她。 第二年开春我过三十岁生日，唐虹在在罗马那边大山里做宇宙射线试验，我早上一个邮件打过去，下午就去她那边了。晚上她带我到饭店吃饭，我们点了意大利空心粉和烤鱼，好开心。晚上到了住房，她就和我拉家常，谆谆教导，这次
谈话我是刻骨铭心永生难忘。我原在家是老末，不太懂事理，这个晚上我一下子明白了好多，虽然我没告诉唐虹，那晚我第一次失眠，千思万想，但为自己以后开始过有谱的生活垫下了里程碑。唐虹，我多么感谢你！ 十多年后，我们俩家九口人又在巴黎相聚一堂。我永远不会忘记那个失眠的晚上。。。
唐虹，你走的这么匆匆，叫我们如何不想你！我们悲痛，我们哀伤，我们心里知道，如果你再和我们交谈，你会希望我们振作精神，好好过好每一天，珍惜所有的好！你的话语永远留在我们的心里。
王国华。2017年7月10号，华盛顿
李颖
“每个人只能陪你走一段路，迟早是要分开的。”
亲爱的唐姐姐，到离别的时候却又真真不舍得你离去，睹物思人，你的善、你的知性有涵养，你的慷慨大度乐于助人又保护弱小，你对要做的事情拼尽所能……总还记得你那么多的好，总还记得有那么多相约的事儿无法再一起完成，禁不住泪流满面……时常想也许上天注定让我陪你一起渡过这世间最后的时光，送你最后一程。我会永远思念你，我也只愿相信你会在量子世界永存。
秦伶娟
唐虹走了，走的太快太突然，让我悲痛万分。她为学业，为家庭，为工作一直忙忙碌碌，难得留片刻清闲给自己。在她周围的朋友，得到过她很多无私的帮助。她像火炬，到哪里，哪里就明亮，温暖。她是我的好同学，好朋友，好姐妹，她永远在我们的心中。
杨小云
是否是真的？这一切发生的太突然，以至于我多少次地在问我自己，不会是在做梦吧？我怎么会做这样的梦？我要赶紧告诉唐虹，要让她小心。。。可梦应该是反的，那就是说一切都不是真的。。。反反复复多少次。
你我在一起7年多，朝夕相处，彼此默契，不是亲人胜似亲人。熟悉你爱喝的咖啡，熟悉你的着装品味，熟悉你的说话做事风格，熟悉你的喜怒哀乐，总之一切的一切。你我一起出差，一起讨论，一起开会，同宿一室，仿佛你的声音还在耳边；你笑我的愚钝，笑我的简单，仿佛道歉声还未褪尽。我们曾彼此许诺一起行走天下，共同感受自然的唯美。 未来的意大利之旅，你给的offer是否还有效？
你静静的走了，当我来到你的身边，我能感受到你内心的坦然，甚至能感受到你和我的内心交流。你无愧于你的家庭亲人子女，无愧于你的同学朋友，无愧于你的同事同僚，因为你已经做了你该做的一切，我为你骄傲，为你自豪。希望来生我们还能继续我们的携手，共同去施展我们的才华。天堂有你在一定不孤独，因为你也会为他们继续你在人间的执着。
潘潘
这辈子能遇到唐博，一定是我的幸运。我年纪最小，不懂事，唐博教会了我很多。在我眼里，除了领导，唐博更像妈妈一样。亲切，宽容，教我怎么去做事，怎么去做人，让我少走了很多很多的弯路。有她在就很安心。我犯错的时候她会告诉我不要怕，我迷茫的时候她会为我指点迷津，甚至我加班的时候，她都会陪我加班送我回家。我想唐博一定是我这辈子遇到的最好最好的“领导”。很感恩，可是又充满无奈。认识唐博短短半年的时间，可是已经学到了之前二十多年没有学到的东西。是啊，多么幸运，又多么不幸。到现在，只能说一句，您一路走好。谢谢您这么久以来的劳心劳力。谢谢您这么久以来的关爱与照顾。真的谢谢您。
Dr. Wu Mingming 吴珉珉博士
TO MY DEAREST NANDA CLASSMATE AND FRIEND, 唐虹, A STAR BURNED SO BRLLIANTLY, FOR A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME
It was summer of 1990, I was a graduate student in US, and first time set foot in Europe. After a one month workshop in Lake Como on Chaos theory, a Brazilian student and I set out to explore Italy. We first went to Milan, exposed ourselves to the enormous ancient cathedrals. Then Verona, a small city outside Venice, admired outdoor opera, and tasted for the first time a drink mixed with beer and Coke Cola. All is nice and grand until we arrived Rome, the capital of Italy. When we arrived the hotel, the first thing we did was to pay all three nights stay to the hotel owner as we were advised. It is not safe to carry cash in Italy. I went to Vatican city the first day. It was around 3 o’clock in the afternoon, the sun rays streamed down from the skylight in St. Peter’s Basilica Church, and the red robed boy choir walked into the church with the most heavenly voice. It moved a nonbeliever. My next stop was Colosseum. I arrived there just in time to see the ancient building glowing in the afternoon sun. I sat down on the stone stairs around the Colosseum, put my backpack against my side, and started to emerge myself in the magnificent view of the Colosseum. A Gipsy woman came over with a big map in front of me, and said something in a language that I did not recognize. I told her that I did not know what she was saying, but at the same time I felt that my backpack placed against my leg taken away. I stood up, and saw a man running into the tourist crowd while pushing my backpack into a duffle bag. The policeman was literally three meters away from me. As I explained to the policeman frantically that a man took my bag with my passport, the policeman looked rather oblivious. He took me to the police station where there was a line of people (all victims of theft) there, one was crying. The policeman at the station assured me again and again, how lucky I was, that the only thing I lost was my passport and camera, not much cash. He further explained that there was no use to catch the thieves because the jail was already overbooked.
Summer of 1990, Lake Como, Italy.
Hong and YiFang were graduate students at University of Florence at that time. About a month ago, they picked me up in Milan airport, and drove me to Lake Como. My motel was high up in the mountains, I remembered it was quite a drive to get up the mountain top because the workers of the cable train were on strike that day. We awarded ourselves with a coffee in the terrace of the motel with live Italian opera singing in the distant city of Como. I planned to visit Hong in Florence after my Rome visit. Now, my Rome trip was cut short. I called Hong immediately and told her the unfortunate news. Naturally, she was very calm. Don’t worry, she said confidently (as she always did), we will sort it all out. With all my belongings in a plastic bag, I went to the Chinese consulate in Rome. Hong transferred $100 to the Chinese consulate, faxed a copy of my Chinese passport, and by miracle, I got my Chinese passport on the same day. I took a train from Rome to Florence with a note from the Italian police station stating that I was robbed and not able to pay the train tickets. I spent the rest of my European visit in Hong’s apartment waiting for my American visa to arrive. Hong lived in a very nice apartment in a quiet neighborhood in Florence, I had my own room. I remember the ceiling of the room I stayed was covered with this beautiful painting by Sandro Bortelli, ‘The Birth of Venus’.
Birth of venus, Sandro Botticelli, mid 1480; a painting that covered the entire ceiling of the bedroom, when I stayed in Hong’s apartment in Florence in 1990.
I stared at it for many hours, and soaked myself in with what I perceived as an European way of life. She also showed me the German Duvet cover where each of the four corners conveniently has an opening for you to grab onto the duvet insert. I looked for these duvet covers later for many years whenever I went to Germany. Hong and I would make simple meals, often involved 茶叶蛋, and had long talks. I was complaining about my trip to the American Consulate in Florence, how police men with machine guns were patrolling around the consulate. Hong was always talking about what food she would make when YiFang came home. YiFang was in CERN during most of my week there. Through these long talks, I realized that I never met anyone who was so devoted and so in love with another human being as she did with YiFang.
Hong’s face was beamed when Yifang came back from CERN. She was a different person, soaked in happiness. In the next few days, Hong turned my not so lucky trip into some fun memories in Europe. As physicists, we naturally went to the leaning tower of Pisa. I love this photo of me and Hong in front of the leaning tower. We were so young and so happy. We both were wearing cloths I bought in K-Mart for less than $10 each piece, I remembered they were soft and comfy. I gave one set to Hong because she told me that clothing in Italy was expensive. We then went to Sienna, and had the most delicious ice cream I have ever had.
Summer of 1990, Leaning tower, Pisa, Italy.
10 years Later, I visited Hong in the Bay area, when Lulu was born. It must be 1999. Again I witnessed the intensity of her love to Lulu like no others. We were talking quietly, with YiFang, my husband Anders and I in the living room, suddenly both Hong and YiFang rushed out of the living room, leaving me and Anders wondering if a disaster had fallen, only to find that Lulu was awake in the next room. My last visit to Hong in the Bay area was after Jeffery was born. I brought with me an used indoor swing that my daughter Freya had grown out of, and a little train set from IKEA. I did not realize that the company Hong worked with had gone public, and she had become rather wealthy. She told me that her colleagues had showered her kids with presents, and they had multiple number of train sets. We ended up taking home a giant wooden train set that my kids played until they had their own electric lego train sets.
Summer of 1990, ice cream at Piazza del Compo, Sienna Italy. Photo by YiFang.
In the recent past few years, Hong always says, Mingming, you should come back often, and meet with us often. Luckily, I had meetings in Beijing almost every year in the last three years. The last time we met, it was November 2016. After my meeting in Beijing near the Olympic park, I stayed an extra day in LinJuan’s place to meet with Hong and XiaoYan. On the last day of my stay, Hong and LinJuan came to send me to the Beijing Airport. Hong came to LinJuan’s place, and she parked her car along the curb by LinJuan’s apartment, came out in a dark blazer, and a beautiful silk scarf. I said, Hong, you looked just like a big executive. LinJuan reminded me Hong is a big executive. To me, she is always my old college classmate, a dear friend who always takes good care of others, but not thinking much about herself. On the way to the airport, Hong again emphasized the importance of meeting more often in her usual convincing and assertive way. She says, because our kids are going to college, and we are getting older, and we have more time to meet now.
Oct. 18, 2013, Tea with Hong, Linjuan and Xiaoyan (not shown). Photo by Xiaoyan.
After getting the news of her sudden departure, I tried to think about her life from many angles. Tears streaming down, because I felt that she gave so much to people around her, and we (especially me) gave so little back to her. But then, I realize that her departure is untimely for us, however, this is her, her way of living. She lived her life to the fullest. Wherever she went, she made stories. She is like a burning star, burned brilliantly, but for a short period of time. I feel extremely privileged and lucky to have known her, and now to share my stories with her family and friends. In my own way, I will carry on her spirit, spread her love, and keep making good stories.
吴珉珉
July 10, 2017, Ithaca, New York
Dr. Xiaofang Wang 王小芳博士
唐虹和我是大学校友加半个老乡。我妈和唐虹的姑姑是好朋友，并在同一个学校做老师。我上南大后，我妈就跟我说起唐虹。
因为这层关系，某一天我就在八舍自我介绍认识了唐虹。唐虹热情直率，我们初次见面就聊的非常好，她把她的同宿舍同学也介绍给我。以后我就常到她的宿舍有事没事转转，和其中一个还成了闺蜜。
唐虹和她的朋友经常一起晚自习，一起回宿舍。她们常常利夜幕的遮掩吹口哨，还比赛谁吹的响，吹的好。常常在回宿舍的路上一人打哈欠，引起大家轮流打哈欠。我也是那时知道打哈欠还会传染呢。
大学毕业后再见唐虹已是2000年在美国加州硅谷。那时唐虹已是2个孩子的妈妈，还在一个新上市的网络科技公司工作。当时她的事业旺盛，公司蒸蒸日上，是许多硅谷人的 羡慕。可就在这样的情况下，唐虹却做出了出乎当时大部分人预料的决定，支持她先生回国工作。她说到做到，很快就卖掉了刚买不久的房子，辞退工作，带着孩子回北京安家，从头再来。
一晃十几年过去了，我们竞然没再见过面。虽然近来在微信上联系着，盼着不久能在美国东部再次相见。现在这个小小的愿望再也实现不了了，让人心碎。。。。